I haven't seen much of this here, but when I do see it it's really abrasive to read. I'm sure you all know what I'm talking about.
Somebody posts a topic. Let's say it has something to do with having small hands, where to learn the pass, overcoming nerves/shakiness, etc. Now, rather than receiving an answer to his question, the thread poster sees about five responses that look something like this:
Obviously this is a slight exaggeration, but you guys get the point. One of the things about E that makes me want to claw out my own prostate is the tendency of its users to beat each other over the head with the search feature. First of all, I don't really think anybody but mods have the right to jump on somebody about an unsearched topic. That's just me. Second of all, just commanding somebody to use the search feature and not answering his question is a rude waste of space in a thread you basically didn't contribute anything to. If you're going to post in a thread, please contribute to the topic, and if you really feel the need to bring up the search feature, link to a few topics that answer the person's question and say, "Here are a few topics that came up with the search feature. I think some of them might answer your question. You might try searching your topic next time to see if there are already threads on it."
I realize it seems like I post alot about how others should post, but you have to understand that I came here for a handful of reasons, and one of those reasons was to get away from some of the detritus I encountered on the E forums. I'm just doing my best to make sure some of the same problems don't creep in here.
Somebody posts a topic. Let's say it has something to do with having small hands, where to learn the pass, overcoming nerves/shakiness, etc. Now, rather than receiving an answer to his question, the thread poster sees about five responses that look something like this:
You son of a mother-clucking, rock-eating, used-car-selling, one-eyed parrot-biter! How dare you bring this up? How DARE you?! There are a million and a half topics on this already, and if I see one more, I'm going to eat a bunch of arsenic and just die in my own puke. You bloody moron! If you ever, EVER fail to use the search feature again, I'm going to sneak into your house, cut your heart out of your chest, eat it, dismember you, splatter your blood all over everything, and leave you like that for whoever to find.
SEARCH FEATURE!!!!
Obviously this is a slight exaggeration, but you guys get the point. One of the things about E that makes me want to claw out my own prostate is the tendency of its users to beat each other over the head with the search feature. First of all, I don't really think anybody but mods have the right to jump on somebody about an unsearched topic. That's just me. Second of all, just commanding somebody to use the search feature and not answering his question is a rude waste of space in a thread you basically didn't contribute anything to. If you're going to post in a thread, please contribute to the topic, and if you really feel the need to bring up the search feature, link to a few topics that answer the person's question and say, "Here are a few topics that came up with the search feature. I think some of them might answer your question. You might try searching your topic next time to see if there are already threads on it."
I realize it seems like I post alot about how others should post, but you have to understand that I came here for a handful of reasons, and one of those reasons was to get away from some of the detritus I encountered on the E forums. I'm just doing my best to make sure some of the same problems don't creep in here.