Forcing the Magic

I was watching some of the videos in the media section and watched a Distortion Excerpt more closely. Wayne Houchin says something that I have been trying to say for a LONG time and have said a few times but wasn't able to get a message across properly.

"And you don't want to be forcing magic on people you don't want to be walking up and doing magic AT people, you want to be entertaining people not SCARING people."

This is something that magicians take way too personally. When a spectator says NO when the magician approaches them. More often than not these people who the magician approaches have never had someone walk up to them and propose to perform some magic for them. And when they say no, they mean NO. The magician has to thank them for their time and leave, because pestering them even more will change their reaction from "O.K. you're kind of weird" to "Stop it you're harassing me". And that's what I interpreted from what Wayne said about forcing magic on people. Because that's not what magicians are there to do, they aren't there to purposefully force people into watching magic, but they're there to entertain people who are willing to watch a few magic tricks. That's why when someone flat out says NO, the magician shouldn't take it personally when the person says that, because it's a normal reaction to a complete stranger who approaches them in the middle of the street.

In the video, Wayne then proceeds to talk about how he had been waiting for a long time to perform to people, and that truly shows how much PATIENCE one needs to perform. As my father has always said, patience is a virtue, and that is one of the most truthful things anyone has said to me. Because without patience, a magician would simply be rushing everything, desperate to perform for anyone. Like a drug.

Wayne then goes on to state that when looking to perform and when performing, having fun is extremely important. Because performing should not be a chore for the magician. It should be a fun and exciting experience for both the magician and the spectator. Not only is this a great tip for performing, but an essential part of ALL magic. Having fun is something that many magicians seem to forget to do. If magic isn't fun for the magician, then they should stop doing magic, because it obviously isn't their hobby, art, profession. Like any job or hobby, if you're not enjoying yourself, then it's not right for you.

This all goes back to so many things I have stated in previous threads, magic is there to have fun and to create a wonderful experience between a performer and spectator. Magic is something that people really shouldn't take for granted. Connecting with a spectator, having a spectator trust the magician, it all comes down to the magician and what he/she can do with magic.

I hope this made sense... My English isn't coming out well today.

Mitchell
 
Sep 9, 2007
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i'll cosign this too.

Like anything in life that involves more that one person, the most important point is the initial approach.

You can't walk up being needy (for attention or whatever), and you can't be a performing monkey. There's a fine line where you're both bringing equal amounts of value to the table, and there's a certain talent to calibrating so that you can facilitate that.
 

-Ty

Sep 1, 2007
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Also, this can beg a deeper question, is this hit and run style of magic the BEST way to showcase ourselves?

I think it's great to grow your chops. It's a great place to meet a lot of new people and get that experience in interaction. But I don't think it's the only venue for our magic, and certainly not the premium we should be striving for.

It takes a lot of patience and time to do this style of magic. Unlike busking, where you invite them into your space, you are pushing yourself into theirs, and you must be respectful of that. No don't mean yes.

Ty
 
Aug 31, 2007
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Exactly, Mitchell...

Magic should not only be fun and a happy time for the spectators, but the magician as well. If you are not too happy, and feel that you don't want to perform, don't...you would just be wasting their time with bad magic, which is the last thing everyone needs.

Make it fun, by having fun. Break out of that shell and be yourself... That usually brings the fun out of a performer.

Keenan
 
I concur. There is a sense of neediness to perform sometimes when I watch some of my fellow comrades approaching people to do magic. Everyone's different and everyone's the same thats usually the case when dealing with people and this hit it and leave it style of magic can sometimes be intrusive and at the same time snobbish. The problem with trying to push your magic on a spectator is when your finished with your routine and whether or not it goes well your still rubbing off as a showoff and not an artist. Good post we need more of this nature.

Leave a sense of artistry. They will remember you for the respect.
 
Exactly, Mitchell...

Magic should not only be fun and a happy time for the spectators, but the magician as well. If you are not too happy, and feel that you don't want to perform, don't...you would just be wasting their time with bad magic, which is the last thing everyone needs.

Make it fun, by having fun. Break out of that shell and be yourself... That usually brings the fun out of a performer.

Keenan
I was watching the Office today (greatest show of all time)... and Michael (Steve Carell) was at the mall with all of the women in the office discussing his relationship with his girlfriend. He had a list of pros and cons, and one of his cons was "I am unhappy when I'm with her." He disregarded that point but the women who were with him pointed out that that is a major problem.

Once again, if you're not happy doing magic, then DON'T... But on the other hand if you're not happy with your magic then you might need to make some drastic changes to make it something that you can be proud of.

Mitchell
 
Once again, if you're not happy doing magic, then DON'T... But on the other hand if you're not happy with your magic then you might need to make some drastic changes to make it something that you can be proud of.

Mitchell

One of the only things that I can truly say is nothing less than the truth. When your unhappy doing something, and you have to anyways it's crap for everyone involved. Plus, if your doing magic and don't like it, then there's no need to be performing, go play soccer or something else. It's common sense but, then again common sense isn't so common now-a-days.

-RA69
 
I think for the most part Mitchell is speaking of magicians that force their will upon non-accepting audiences without properly setting up their approaches to the spectators with respect and confidence.

Ya, that's what i'm thinking too.

But, hopefully none of us go out there and go "HEY YOU!!! IMA SHOW YOU SOME MAGIC, AND YOUR GONNA LIKE IT!!! NOW WA - SHUTUP AND WATCH THIS!!!!"

But you never know people these days...
 
Great thread bro. I agree 100%.

I don't do strolling magic as much as I used to because I've kinda migrated to stage performing, but the one thing I try to do when trying to get a crowd going outta nowhere is be doing mabe some XCM on the side or Hummer Card is a great way to get the people walking by's attention and <b>try to have them come to me.</b>

I do this so I can kinda weave out the people that might be busy and/or in a hurry from the people just walking around kinda bored...
 
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