Good topic, I usually avoid these things, but this one was properly written an approached, so I'll give it a go. Lots of good replies.
I have been influenced by many of the youthful magicians (Wayne, Bucks, Blaine, Madison, etc.) simply because I am young as well, and most people can relate to that. There is no point in trying to perform as if you are from a different generation. With that said, I based my performance style entirely off myself and my own personality (Heavily psychological, very fun, and dynamic). I like to take dramatic swings from down to earth effects to dark and mysterious miracles depending on who I am performing for, and I always try to bring people into a fun, interesting place when I show them magic. I am a lot like you Ben, I like to 'witness' the magic as well along with them. It creates a much more meaningful memory for them, and it creates the illusion that they experienced real magic, rather than someone who could do tricks. That is Blaine's signature approach, and I admit I got the idea from him (and that he is brilliant for using that mentality), but I absolutely made it my own by defining it around my personality. For me, I like to reel people in with something simple and beautiful, and I stay quiet and really let them get the full experience. I aim for silent reactions followed by soft but serious questions which allow me to dig them (and myself) deeper into the rabbit hole. Basically anything that let's people act like children, no worries, no fears, just primitive and simplistic thoughts and experiences. I tend to perform for smaller groups of people when doing this though.