Never said you should fake it, just that you should try to care about them. Get to know them a bit better. etc etc. People will be more inclined to enjoy what you do, if they consider you a friend.
I think that all depends on your performance. If you think card magic is crappy and mundane and boring then that is precisely what performing it will convey.
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Self conscious perhaps, worried that their presentation will simply be laughed at and simply showing a cool trick is easier to get away with.
The lack of conscious effort, just going through the motions and bad habits built up of pattering on about nothing.
Or maybe just because they really don't care when it comes time. Sure they may understand but when the time comes they stick to what is comfortable, what "works" best for them and not entertaining the audience.
Just a few ideas, I honestly don't remember why I chose patter over script. Most likely the last one, but again I just remember a certain point I wanted to be more and chose to perform than to just present.
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I agree I would say there is a definite difference between magicians who specialize in cards (D+M) and then 'card guys' (youtube magicians).
He learns all the moves in a trick, records it, his card guy friends say 'cool' and he moves on.
I would say all of this could be applied to any other type of magic as well. Just like there are card guys there are coin guys, mentalism guys etc. If you are constantly searching for new material because you aren't getting good reactions then you won't get anywhere until you realize your problem is how you're doing it, not what.
I think people who strive for cards don't understand what's out there. Reverhart put into a post about how people actually comment on him not doing just card effects all the time.
For a formal scene I would probably stick to incredibly basic materials that I know I can work with. However, you don't always perform formally, nor have your cards. Well cheeseburger time suckassss, how randomly awesome would that be for food that every red blooded and cold blooded american loves.
I went out a few nights ago with some buddies and one of them asked if I could perform a little something. Well there wasn't anything for my mentalism material sadly, no paper, no nothing. I was thinking to myself, is this really it? I have no cards or other props I need to perform magic.
I was a bit ashamed and just said maybe later, I certainly couldn't say "I don't have any cards on me sorry" as that would look like a utter failure. While you are true that the audiences you perform for aren't looking at the big picture, what do you think they would enjoy more, a TNR fish or a Tivo?
We are magicians.
To our audiences eyes we can do anything.Read minds,levitate..pull bunnies out of hats.
And the majority of the magic im seeing performed are card tricks.And not much else.
Now,dont get me wrong. I have always had an admiration for cards and feel some sort of dark romanticism associated with them. And some card effects can be quite beautiful. But very few. Its only with D+M that I have started purchasing card effects recently.
There is so much more magic that can be done.
For example I produce ice at will whenever I feel like.Or even once when I was hungry I told my friends to take me out to eat.when they refused I simply said "fine" cupped my hands over an empty spot on a table and produced a McDonalds burger.(fully wrapped of course).
And these arent tricks that you buy,or learn on a DVD.But just ideas and inspirations on watching other magicians perform.
This type of thing turns your magic into miracles.
I urge people to go back and read on Max Malini. His devotion to performing miracles is truly inspiring. And I understand that alot of people might not have the same passion,devotion or patience to try and perform this type of magic.But I hope for the most part ya'll do.
And for those who just love to do card effects constantly.Dont make it seem like a card trick. Give the effect more meaning instead of just a 'look what I can do' sort of thing.(I know this wont work for every card trick one does.I refrain from doing those.One can give it more intrigue by saying "heres something a Vegas loungejack once showed me"Not magic,but makes it more interesting I think)
I say things about vodoo,our perception of time,explain a little history of magic,but I dont drown them with a script though.
And its also little things that make a big difference. Most of the time I give the deck to the spectators to hold while im pulling something out to aid in the effect or just if im telling a story.
I dont flourish.
So there it is.
You can either choose to start creating miracles.(even with cards)
Or just be the guy that does card tricks all the time.
I realized that if you want to have some success (I know some people here consider hobbists, but they do book some gigs sometimes) you need more magic with other things...think about it, if you were an spectator with absolute no knowledge about card magic and sleights...would like to see a 1 hour show with just cards?
just my thoughts....
Visual-Correct me if I'm wrong. I think your post has a lot less to do with the cards themselves and a lot more to do with the 'inside the box' thinking that they are so often associated with yes? We could probably tl;dr this whole thread as "Dear noobs, stop taking every trick you learn at face value alone. Stop being crappy magicians. Stop doing crappy magic. Love, the theory11 community."