Yeah, taking money is stealing, cause you're actually taking something, something psychical. You can't take a secret, therefore, it isn't stealing. I also don't use it if I don't buy it and don't like it. Thanks for proving my point.
If I took the CD from my friend, that would be stealing. If I just listen to it, that isn't stealing. If I copied it (which would be taking it basically) that would be stealing. If I liked it and then bought the CD, that definitely wouldn't be stealing.
If I took a trick and used it without buying it, that would be stealing. If I just know the method but never use it, it isn't stealing. If I know the method and I like it, so then I buy it, that definitely isn't stealing.
Plain, simple, and easy.
Tyler
EDIT:
I have some questions, that people haven't answered yet because they know I'm right. Here they are, first paragraph are my first questions.
Don't you have conventions with magicians? Don't you have a magician buddy who you practice with? Don't you show each other things? How is that any different? You're exposing the methods right then and there, and by your definition you're stealing money from artists.
I have one more question. What if you watch the demo of an effect and it's so easy you figure it out? If you then do it because you figured it out, would that be stealing in your opinion? I'm sure several people that have replied to this topic have done that.